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Interdependence
The Myth That's Making You Miserable
Society sells us the fiction that independence equals strength. The self-made entrepreneur. The lone genius. The self-sufficient hero.
But this mythology is our biggest weakness disguised as our greatest virtue.
Every success story you've been sold — from Edison's light bulb to Musk's rockets — conveniently edits out the thousands of people who made it possible.
We've turned collaboration into a dirty word.
No leaf photosynthesizes alone. No planet orbits in isolation. No wave breaks without the ocean.
Here's the uncomfortable truth: Independence is the greatest marketing scam ever sold.
Reality Check
Nature doesn't do independence. Look at any thriving ecosystem:
The Forest Model:
Trees share nutrients through underground networks
Fungi facilitate communication between species
Individual death feeds collective life
Balance maintains the whole system
The Human Model:
We celebrate rugged individualism
We build walls instead of bridges
We optimize for personal gain
We wonder why everything's falling apart
Evolution isn't trying to create perfect individuals. It's creating perfect systems. And systems require connection, not isolation.
The entire universe runs on one fundamental protocol: interdependence.